By Deaconess Mary J. Moerbe
Although we can get tempted to undermine ourselves with constant and ever-changing job self-evaluations, neither those goals nor our "success" is the point. Even those who are not full-time homeschoolers are teachers and providers for their children. Children learn at home whether one claims to homeschool or not. And the men and women in that home are placed into a teaching role by none other than God Himself so that we cannot help but teach. So what do we teach?
There
are a lot of women who went to college, got degrees, and then, whether by
design or development, stayed home following marriage. Some call themselves
professional homemakers, emphasizing home over house. I'd like to suggest that
those who homeschool can also consider themselves professional homeschoolers.
Does
that mean I think you can make money by opening your home as a mini-school or
one-room schoolhouse? Not necessarily. At the same time, what we do within our
vocations is not a hobby. We are not hobbyists, but professionals!
There
is not particularly job training for marriage or parenting. After all, our
vocations cannot be boiled down to general or vague steps to follow. We serve
our neighbor and that is about as narrow and specific as it can get! And the
reasons that drive us to homeschooling may mean that typical secular
educational training is not the training we actively pursue.
Others
may not understand our desire to stay home. They may not be able to imagine our
desire to stay home with children who can admittedly run us ragged. And,
frankly, those children can make any amount of housekeeping and homemaking
sometimes seem like a lofty and unattainable desire. Still, we are working at
it. We may have no office but our home, but we wake up, face the day, and
accomplish what we can.
Although we can get tempted to undermine ourselves with constant and ever-changing job self-evaluations, neither those goals nor our "success" is the point. Even those who are not full-time homeschoolers are teachers and providers for their children. Children learn at home whether one claims to homeschool or not. And the men and women in that home are placed into a teaching role by none other than God Himself so that we cannot help but teach. So what do we teach?
My
favorite subject has to be that although we sin and fall short often and in so
many ways, in Christ we are forgiven, restored, honored, and safe. Not only do
my children learn that on an ongoing basis, but I do, too!
Other
than that, however, I get to use my background and various trainings and
lessons to love and serve my children. I can try to keep up on the reading
material and developments in my field if I can manage it, yet, at the same
time, I can relax, knowing that ancient parents loved and served their children
with far less than I sometimes dream of . . . and they did so successfully!
It
is God who ultimately raises children. God grants and sustains life, not only
in the womb but each and every day. It is God who provides our time together
and His good gifts to share.
As
society changes, more and more Christians are homeschooling. This can raise
some tension between retreating from the world and preparing to engage it. Yet,
I've recently stumbled onto an idea that may help with that and many other
little practical worries and concerns professional homeschoolers can have.
I'm
a Lutheran author and a blogger a little obsessed with resources, so I asked
myself the following questions:
·
What
would happen if Lutheran homeschoolers had their own place to leave comments
about non-Lutheran curricula that could use some Lutheran tweaking?
·
What
if Lutheran homeschoolers could share what they develop for use within their
own families with larger communities at large?
·
Could
Lutheran homeschoolers really unite in such a way that we can pool our
educational and creative resources?
The
answer to all of those is that I want to find out!
I've
put together a brand new website: LutheranHomeschool.com. It's in its infancy and it could
benefit from a community of professional homeschoolers looking it over and
raising it to become the Lutheran resource it can be.
There
are pages for recommendations and requests. There is a marketplace where we can
either freely share or sell downloads individuals develop. We even have a list
of conferences, in case that interests you.
You'll
have no pressure or job evaluations from me. But, if this can help you in any
way, or if you think you may be able to serve others through helping this
project along, look it over. New things are already in the works.
I
tip my proverbial hat to all my fellow professional homeschoolers, even as I
pray that the truth, wisdom, and comforts of Lutheranism can be spread far and wide—thick
and heavy!—both in our homes and out of it.
Thank
you, whether you are a homeschooler or not, for being in the vocations God has
given you. He has placed you in it for the greater good.
Yours
in Christ,
Mary
J Moerbe
***
Mary is a Lutheran deaconess, author, wife, mother to six, and blogger
at maryjmoerbe.com.
Her new website is LutheranHomeschool.com.
This looks like a great resource! Will share with friends. Thank you. ~Susan
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